Sunday, December 18, 2022

Last Minute Christmas Advice

 

There is no shortage of advice online at this time of year. There is gift advice, decorating advice and even advice on dealing with the annoying relatives at Christmas dinner. What we really need is a column where people can get last minute Christmas advice as they’re heading out the door on Christmas Eve.  It might look something like this: 

Dear LMS (Last Minute Santa) – I haven’t started my shopping yet and it’s Christmas Eve. What would you suggest I buy for my family?  Since time is short, I suggest you head to the nearest big box store and only buy items that come pre-wrapped in a holiday box. For dad, try the 18-hole desktop executive golf course. Consider the perfumed pencil set for mom and the Bluetooth slippers for your sister.

Dear LMS – We have a tradition of opening one gift on Christmas Eve after church. Last year my little brother got to open a cool gift while I opened a sweater?  Try this. Each family member can open one package or “steal” one that’s already been opened. This should lead to some quality family time.

Dear LMS – We want to bring a gift for our friends tonight but hesitate because we don’t want to embarrass them if they didn’t get a gift for us. What should we do?  Make the first move. Present the gifts to them at the door. This courteously gives the host time to wrap someone else’s gift or drive to a nearby drug store before they close.

Dear LMS – I will get home from college at about 7 p.m. on Christmas Eve. My old high school friends are having a really cool party tonight as well.  How long do I need to stay at my parent’s house before I can leave for the party?  There is a formula for calculating PQT (parent quality time).  Take the number of weeks it has been since you were last home and multiply times five to get the proper number of minutes. For example, if you saw them at Thanksgiving, you need to make small talk for at least 20 minutes. Showers don’t qualify as parent quality time.

Dear LMS – My kids want Santa to bring them a drone, an Ipad and a Playstation 5. Santa is magical they say so he should be able to bring anything they ask for. Unfortunately, my bank account is not magical. Any advice would be helpful. It’s about time you got some credit here.  Tell them that mommy and daddy send money to Santa on April 15 every year.  Based on how big that check is, Santa decides what he can bring. Show them the cancelled check from last year and explain that IRS stands for I (love) Rudolph & Santa.

Dear LMS – My older sister and her boyfriend are great people but they are lousy cooks. It’s our turn to go to their home for Christmas and we dread it. What would you do? Instead of the traditional hostess gift, bring a round roast with mashed potatoes and some mixed vegetables. Explain that you are both are on a strict diet.

Dear LMS – I will cook for hours tomorrow while my family watches football all day. They will then devour the meal in 15 minutes and return to the TV room. Is there anything I can do?   I would start with a 7-course meal that takes an hour to serve. Next cut the cable TV line in the yard and set all of the DVR’s in the house to record the Little House On The Prairie holiday marathon.

 

Merry Christmas to our readers.  Send column suggestions and comments to flipsidecolumn@gmail.com.